Ok so I've tried a lot. The Dunlop Flow is my favorite pick, but it won't last a single gig, I guess I play too hard. Steath 2.0 is my clear choice in every situation. Flex may find its use in recording. Heavy is a bit too heavy even for me :-) Anyway, I seem to have found what I was looking for. A pick that won't fall out of your fingers, will last a few weeks of intense playing, hits every string perfectly and adds something special to every note (just a personal feeling of course). I recommend trying it!.